God's thought towards His children are higher than whatever they are desiring for themselves, His thoughts towards us are joy, peace and fulfillment in life.
Isaiah 55:8-9 says "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts".
No mater how much good we want for ourselves, we can never get something better than God's best for our lives, hence, be patience, prayerful and wait on Him for the fulfillment of His promises over your live-Hebrews 6:12.
As a believer, any moment that you see the appearance of an ugly situation, go immediately into your closest and begin to call on the Almighty God-Psalm 50:15.
Please do not wait till the storm is overwhelming before you cry out to Him, put aside that sad look and let the glory of God radiate through you as you await God's best.
Have a peaceful day.